Sunday, October 30, 2022

Happy Birthday/Happy Halloween/Happy Sabboth

 Today is Kim's birthday. We had a nice day at church and then invited a few of the senior missionary couples over for cake and ice cream.  We were sad we couldn't invite them all for lack of space.  But it was a nice group and made the day a little more special.  

I was suppose to speak in Sacrament meeting.  There were 2 other sisters who spoke before me.  When it was my turn, I had 5 minutes to give a 13 minute talk.  I thought at first I wouldn't give it and just bear my testimony.  I did bear my testimony on marriage as one of the sisters had spoken on marriage and part of it was in English so I added to that little bit.  But then I gave just a couple of paragraphs from my talk.  I really was okay with not giving the talk even though I had felt really good about the message.  It had all come together so easily and I felt really directed in my preparation.  But I also felt very directed in just the little bit that I gave today in Sacrament meeting.  

But guess what?  I'm going to share my whole talk with anyone out there that would like to read.  It's truly my testimony.

I think my most favorite word in the English language is BELIEVE.  That seems weird to have a favorite word…. but I really like that word BELIEVE.  It has so many connotations to it.

         At Christmas time especially in the States, people use the word Believe everywhere or they say, “We Believe” and they’re referring to Santa Claus.  Believe in Santa….  Christmas is my favorite time of year and the idea of believing in Santa Claus and the good he can do has always made Christmas a magical time of year for me.

 

         When Elder Roper was a principal one year his school sang a song titled: Believe in Yourself. The words to that song say:

Believe in yourself, there’s power in you.

Have faith in your dreams and they will come true.

There’s much you can give if you do your part.

The choices you make should come from your heart.

So believe in yourself, cause there’s nothing you cannot do.

If you believe in yourself dreams can come true.

         Believing in yourself is a powerful tool. And when you believe you can accomplish something, it’s a great way to achieve that goal.

 

I love that thought and that principal But Believing in Jesus Christ will give us even more power.

 

At the end of the Book of Mormon, Mormon has very little time and not much space to write one last message.  His last message is important. He says, (Mormon 7: 5) Know ye that ye must . . .  bbelieve in Jesus Christ, that he is the Son of God, and that he was slain by the Jews, and by the power of the Father he hath risen again, ….

8 Therefore repent, and be baptized in the name of Jesus, and lay hold upon the agospel of Christ,… which shall be set before you,

9 For behold, athis is bwritten for the intent that ye may cbelieve

 

Nephi is speaking of the things which have been written in the Book of Mormon when he said,   (2 Nephi 33:4) “for it apersuadeth them to do good; . . . and it speaketh of Jesus, and persuadeth them to believe in him, and to endure to the end, which is life beternal….10 hearken unto these words and bbelieve in Christ; and if ye believe not in these words believe in Christ.”

 

No matter what you do, BELIEVE in JESUS CHRIST.

 

January is winter in the United States.  In January 2015, a young girl named Sailor was flying in a small aircraft with her family.  Her father was the pilot.  They had been visiting the warm state of Florida and were flying home across the country when their aircraft had mechanical problems and crashed into the open hills in Kentucky.  It was raining and dark and cold, only about 3 degrees Celsius.  Everyone in the aircraft was killed except 7-year-old Sailor.  Sailor knew she was alone, and no one knew where she was.  She had a broken wrist, and some minor cuts and scrapes. Regardless of the fact that she had on no shoes and was only wearing a light t-shirt and some shorts, she went out into the dark to seek for help.  She had no idea where she was or where to go.  She started out into the brush and through the prickly bushes and hilly terrain.  It was pitch dark. She waded through streams, crossed many ditches, and plowed through the briars.  There was no sign of life anywhere, but she continued forward.  After walking for some time, from the top of a hill, she saw a light in the distance.  She knew she must continue towards that light. There were times when she was at the bottom of a hill and could not see the light, but she pressed forward.  Eventually, Sailor reached a single home in the cold hills of Kentucky and found a kind man who rescued her.

 

What does this story have to do with believing?  Sailor believed.  She believed that there was life in the darkness-someone that could rescue her.  She believed there was hope for her to find help.  In our own lives, we hopefully will never have to endure what Sailor did, but we ALL need to have the same type of hope and Belief that she had.  We need to BELIEVE there is hope in our spiritual darknesses. That when life is hard and we don’t know which way to go or what to do, Jesus Christ brings us hope. 

Just as Sailor saw a light in the distance, we can see the light that shines from our belief in Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ is the Light of the World. Jesus Christ himself said, “ behold, I am the light and the life of the world."

Elder Whitney Clayton of the Seventy said, “all of us will, at some time or another, have to traverse our own spiritual wilderness and undertake our own rugged emotional journeys. In those moments, however dark or seemingly hopeless they may be, if we search for it, there will always be a spiritual light that beckons to us, giving us the hope of rescue and relief. That light shines from the Savior of all mankind, who is the Light of the World.”

 

Being able to see the spiritual light of Jesus Christ, starts with our willingness and desire to believe.  Alma said, “If ye will awake and arouse your faculties … and exercise a particle of faith, yea, even if ye can no more than desire to believe, let this desire work in you, even until ye believe in a manner that ye can give place for a portion of [the Savior’s] words.”

 

I’m sure there were times When Sailor stopped and cried and thought she would never find her way through the wilderness.  She didn’t give up.  She kept pushing on.

 

This week we have helped several return missionaries and students make application to attend BYU-H.  It has been a long and hard road where obstacles have gotten in the way, one after the other.  Peter Sanele, who served here a couple of months ago, was one of those young people.  He was discouraged but finally he and Elder Roper were able to get the proper forms submitted.  He said to Elder Roper, I was about ready to give up.  In life, we can’t give up.  In the gospel of Jesus Christ, we can’t give up.  We must believe and continue onward.

 

There surely were times when Sailor couldn’t see the light, but she always had the memory and remembrance of its presence.  There may be times when we can’t see the light of the Savior.  There are bushes and briars and hills and trees, streams and ditches and all kinds of debris in our way.  But we will always have the memory of the times when we have seen his light.  The remembrance of the times when the Spirit has touched our hearts and we have believed.  Elder Clayton said, “There may be times when we have been hurt, when we are tired, and when our lives seem dark and cold. There may be times when we cannot see any light on the horizon, and we may feel like giving up. If we are willing to believe, if we desire to believe, if we choose to believe, then the Savior’s teachings and example will show us the pathway forward.”

 

This thought of remembering upon our past experiences reminds me of the words of Helaman when he said to his sons, “12 And now, my sons, remember, remember that it is upon the arock of our Redeemer, who is Christ, the Son of God, that ye must build your bfoundation; that when the devil shall send forth his mighty winds, yea, his shafts in the whirlwind, yea, when all his hail and his mighty cstorm shall beat upon you, it shall have no power over you to drag you down to the gulf of misery and endless wo, because of the rock upon which ye are built, which is a sure foundation, a foundation whereon if men build they cannot fall.

 

This scripture gives me great hope.  If I have done all I can, if I am building my faith on Jesus Christ, then I can endure anything that comes at me.  It may be hard.  It may not be what I would choose. But because I choose to believe and my faith is in Jesus Christ, then He will give me the strength I need to push through the briars.

 

How do we build upon that rock?  The Rock of Christ?  One way is by following our Prophet. We are so blessed with the technology to read and listen to the words of President Nelson and other apostles.  When I was a teenager, we lived far away from the church.  We were able to listen to one session of general conference each year.  I don’t remember receiving a magazine in our home—but we might have.  We definitely didn’t have the internet.  To hear the words of the prophets was difficult. They were not easily assessable. Even here in Fiji, far, far away from church headquarters, we can receive the words of every talk given in general conference. What a blessing that can be in our lives if we will take the time to listen or read these words from our leaders.

 

Elder Clayton, “Prophets across the ages have encouraged us and even implored us to believe in Christ. Their exhortations reflect a fundamental fact: God does not force us to believe. Instead, He invites us to believe by sending living prophets and apostles to teach us, by providing scriptures, and by beckoning to us through His Spirit. We are the ones who must choose to embrace those spiritual invitations, electing to see with inward eyes the spiritual light with which He calls us. The decision to believe is the most important choice we ever make. It shapes all our other decisions.”

 

As I look at my life, most if not all my decisions are based upon my belief in Jesus Christ. I obeyed my parents growing up as a child. I attended church throughout my youth. Even though none of my friends were members of the church, I chose good friends that would help me to stay on the path. I went to BYU because of Jesus Christ.  I was married in the Salt Lake temple and had a family because of Jesus Christ. I have served in many callings in the church because of my belief.  I am here in Fiji for the same reason.  These are major decisions, but even small decisions are made because of my belief.  My language, my clothing, the foods I eat, the way I treat others.  Because of one word…. BELIEVE.  It is a choice I have made.  It hasn’t happened by accident.  Elder Clayton: “We will not accidentally come to believe in the Savior and His gospel any more than we will accidentally pray or pay tithing. We actively choose to believe.”

 

I hope you see why I LOVE the word BELIEVE.  this one word, has a huge influence on my life.  I am who I am because of this word…Believe.  I Believe.  I pray that you too will choose to believe.  In this past conference, Pres. Nelson left a blessing upon the members of the church. WHY? To help them that they may choose to believe. 

This is what he said:

I bless you in your quest to overcome this world. I bless you to increase your faith in Jesus Christ and learn better how to draw upon His power. I bless you to be able to discern truth from error. I bless you to care more about the things of God than the things of this world. I bless you to see the needs of those around you and strengthen those you love. Because Jesus Christ overcame this world, you can too.”

 

 May I close with the testimony of our prophet Russell M Nelson:

“We worship God the Eternal Father in the name of His Son by the power of the Holy Ghost. We know the premortal Jesus to be Jehovah, God of the Old Testament. We know Him to be ‘the chief corner stone’ upon which the organization of His Church is based (Eph. 2:20). We know Him to be the Rock from whom revelation comes … to all who worthily seek Him (see D&C 88:63).

“We know that He came into the world to do the will of His Father, who sent Him. (See 3 Ne. 27:13.) His divine mission was to effect the Atonement, which was to break the bands of death and enable us to receive immortality and eternal life.

“The living Lord’s divine mission still continues. One day we will stand before Him in judgment. …

“We revere the name of Jesus Christ. He is our risen Redeemer.” Ensign, May 1990

I add my testimony that these things are true.  I Believe!

Celebrating Elder Roper and Elder Himle's birthday that they share.  Dinner @ Holiday Inn. 

Happy 67 years of life!


 

We were at the grocery store Saturday and these 3 kids who attend the LDS Primary School saw us.  Put on these masks that were for sale and came up and said HI!  Loved it!  I don't know if anyone buys these masks, though, because they really don't celebrate Halloween!  Happy Halloween in any case.

Last week, Tuesday, was Diwali.  Suva was crazy with fireworks going off everywhere.  I kept waking up every little while to the sounds of more fireworks.  Finally at 1:00  I woke up and it was silent.  The next night was not quite as bad. We went to the dorms to help with homework.  Afterwards we shot have 3 boxes of fireworks.  I love doing fireworks with these kids.  They have so much fun!

Maikep is from Paupa New Guinea.  She received a mission call to the Phillipines to begin in February.  She will go to the MTC in Provo.    Ashton in also from PNG.  He received a mission call to a different Philiipine mission and will also go to the MTC in Provo. We plan to help transport them from the airport to the MTC. Can't wait!  Mazina, also PNG, has a mission call to Ghana.  She is nervous but she'll be amazing.  Her MTC will be in New Zealand. Many of the students have papers in and expect mission calls, some as early as this week.

Randy invited us to come to the dorms for the opening of his mission call.  Here he is with Mosese who is the dorm Father for the boys.  He is online with his family.  Randy received the 3rd mission call to yet another Phillipine Mission.  His MTC will be in the Phillipines.  Don't know why the different place.  He's a little disappointed he won't get to go to Provo and experience the cold of Utah in February and visit us there.  We're very disappointed he won't be coming to Utah.

 

Kim teaching a SHORT lesson to faculty at the college during Monday morning faculty meeting.
Kim's also been teaching some short lessons on technology to other senior couples. 

Saturday, October 22, 2022

Beach Time at Kiuva Beach

 We have really been busy this time around on our mission.  "Busy is better than bored."  We don't get to go to the beach very often.  But when we can, we go.  Here are just a few pictures of stop overs at the beach.  There is a beach "close" to the airport and kind of on our way home from Korovou on Sundays where we go to church.  Occasionally we'll stop on our way home, just walk on the black sands.  It's our favorite beach with palm trees that line the whole 1-2 mile stretch.  There aren't usually very many people that go there.  Definitely is not a developed beach.  Just peaceful and quiet.

Elder Roper LOVES to stop and talk to the locals. And they're generally very happy to return the acquaintance. 

Elder Roper and Elder Hair
Elder Roper, Elder & Sister Hair visiting with a local.  He was a cute young man who sang us a song!

These cute boys were selling coconuts for $3-5.  We couldn't say no to them.  Then we had to have a picture.
On this trip, we actually brought a picnic lunch and did a little swimming in the water.  It was some public holiday.  I don't remember which one.  



The boys showing us how strong they were!

We took Sister Call and Sister Mildenhall to District Conference with us. On the way home, we showed them Kiuva Beach.  This young man, Freddy, was with his grandfather.  He said he wanted to know more about the church.  On the way home, we saw the young Elder missionaries at the church we passed by.  We stopped and told them about Freddy.  They knew Freddy!  Said he comes by and visits with them often and sometimes goes out with on visits!  :)





On this particular Sunday, we were driving home with Elder & Sister Jorgensen following us.  Elder & Sister Hinkson (in the forefront) attend a unit just south of where we go to church.  We happened to come upon them just as they were turning onto the main road.  We texted them and invited them to join us.  We had a very pleasant walk on the beach that afternoon.

The sand is black a this beach and when it's wet, it's just like a mirror.  It also has little specks of gold in it.
Elder & Sister Jorgensen
Elder Roper has started wearing shorts under his sulu.  It makes it much easier for him to not expose himself.  😂😅😆😜



Phil & Debi Schramm, Abbie's in-laws, came to visit.  A good excuse to go to Kiuva Beach.  It was another Holiday, so there were a few more people there, but not much. This is the remains of a boat.  Would love to know the story there!
The police drove by making sure everyone was safe at the beach.  They stopped, got out and all wanted their pictures with us!  😅 We had that experience a LOT in China but not so much in Fiji.  We were happy to oblige.

Found this beautiful sea urchin shell. It's so delicate. We were surprised it was in such good shape.
Making Sand Castles



Turavu Family

 It's been a crazy month and I haven't had a minute to post anything.  So there might be 2 or 3 that get posted in a row.  

We have loved the Turavu Family from the beginning of our mission back in 2019.  Jerry and Ema live in a small village outside of Korovou and attend the Korovou Branch.  He is currently serving as the 1st Counselor in the Branch Presidency, and she is the Young Women’s President.  I serve as Ema’s 1st counselor.  Ema and Jerry have 7 children, Leisa, Cathy, George, Sophie, Grace, Salote and Koto.  Leisa graduated from LDS Church College in 2021.  She recently was hired to be a flight attendant with Fiji Airway. She just started flying international flights at the beginning of this month.  She has been flying to New Zealand and Australia.  In November, I believe, she'll start flying to America.  Can't wait! It’s truly been a blessing for the family.  Cathy is currently attending LDS Church College.  For the girls to attend the college, they have to get up early in the morning and catch a bus that will take them to Nausori, then get another bus into Suva and change buses again to get the bus that takes them to school.  It takes them about 2 hours every day to make it to school which begins at 8:45. Then it’s 2 hours again to get home. That makes for a long day and takes a lot of dedication and conviction. But it's something both girls have thought it was worth the sacrifice.

 

Three years ago, the family journeyed to Suva for Ema and Jerry to receive their endowments and to be sealed in the temple. When they got there, they were disappointed to learn they couldn’t complete their dreams because Jerry had not been ordained to the Melchizedek Priesthood. Things happened and they didn’t make it before Covid hit and we all know what that means.  Finally, on September 10, 2022 we were able to accompany Ema and Jerry to the temple for their first time.  After receiving their own endowments with their oldest daughter, Leisa, they were sealed together. The children were brought in and the children were sealed to them for eternity.  The girls said they looked like angels all dressed in white in the temple.  It truly was a beautiful sight.  Afterwards we took them to a local restaurant and had lots of pizza.  It’s a day that this family worked hard for for many years.  They are a strong family and one of the stalwarts in the Korovou Branch.

 

This past week, Debi and Phil Schramm have been here in Fiji visiting.  We tell everyone that they are the grandparents to three of our grandchildren.  Their son, James, married our daughter, Abbie.  While they were here, Ema insisted she have us out for a traditional Fiji lovo dinner.  What a fabulous dinner. A lovo dinner is cooked in a pit with hot stones to cook the food. There was chicken, dalo, corned beef wrapped in dalo leaves and cooked in coconut milk, other greens cooked similarly with coconut milk, chicken curry, potato salad, and chicken Chow Mien.  There may have been more, but that’s all I can remember.  Ema made fresh lemonade from their lemon tree. Amazing! There was also cake made with plantains and another cake made with mangos.  It was all delicious.  But mostly it was just joyous to spend the evening with this lovely family.  At the end, they presented us with the woven grass mat that we had sat on during dinner.  There were also a couple of neighbor boys who both joined the church recently.  Jerry’s son from a previous marriage was also there.  It was a pleasure getting to know him and finding he is as pleasant and kind as his father.

 

Whenever we have visitors at the branch, the Korovou girls take good care of them.  Sophie, Grace, Salote and Koto love to show guests around the building, help them find the hymns in the hymn book, sit by them in church and be their friend for the day. Sophie is also very interested in learning how to play the piano. I’ve been trying to teach her the best I can.  While teaching her, Grace has also sat close by and has been learning. Cathy and Salote are picking up the basics.  There are always other youth who join in and want to have their turn at the keyboard.  I love teaching them.  There are usually four different sets of hands trying to play the same song. 

 


 Back Left to Right: Sophie, George, Jerry, Ema, Cathy, Leisa

Front: Grace, Koto, Salote




 

 

Elder & Sister McBride, (he serves as the branch president) Nai (a supportive Branch member) Sister Bulovou on towards the right side is also a supportive branch member.
Elder & Sister Jorgensen, who also serve in the Korovou Branch
Adorable Family: Cathy, Leisa, Ema, Jerry, Sophie & Grace
George, Salote & Koto

After going to the temple, Koto found a $5 bill in the bushes.  It was like manna from heaven.  She was delighted when her mother said she could buy whatever she wanted with her $5.

One donut to make this 6 year old very happy! Cost? $5!
 She chose to share it with Salote! 💕💕💕
Waiting for pizza!
Pizza!

Ema could be our daughter.  We look alike, right?  Well, maybe not but she was born 2 months after we lost our own little Meggie.  So, she could be our daughter! I think they knew each other before they came here to this life!

Koto at a baptism. I think that is Grace down by the water.
Piano Lessons
Sophie

Koto and Lili playing a jacks type came with stones. 

This was the evening when we had dinner at the Turavu's home.  It had been raining most of the day.  Their home is at the top of a hill with a steep drive--and as you can see the drive way is just red clay.  Elder Roper thought for sure he could make it up.  But he was mistaken.  He tried to back down but somehow slid sideways into the hill.  We were STUCK!  After dinner, Jerry took his 2 boys and a couple of neighbor boys and somehow they were able to get the car back to the road.  Debi Schramm got a good laugh out of this one.  She took the pictures!😂😂😂 We needed them to have a good Fijian experience. 

Notice the woven grass mats on the floor.  So beautiful.  And here are all her dishes that she had prepared.
Sitting down to eat. 
After we ate and everything was cleaned up.
Wais and Apeli (spellings are wrong I'm sure) taking selfies with my phone.
The family with Schramms and Us
George, Apeli and Cathy taking selfies.
More selfies--me with Apeli and Grace
Apeli, Wais and me...selfies


Goodbyes with lots of Hugs and Tears

 I realize we have now been home almost 4 weeks.  Wow how time flies.  But I still wanted to make one last and final post.  We absolutely lo...